I'm new to rhino, how do I do this (tensile / mesh model)

simulation

see also here - cloth simulation with grasshopper / kangaroo)

shrinkwrap

you might also just play around with some very simple initial geometry.
_line
_pipe
and then use
_shrinkwrap (with 10 to 50 smooth iterations) (left)
or
with some initial offset outwards (middle) and back inwards (right).