ive got my question all wrong and would like to delete the topic and thread,
is that possible ? i dont see a way to do that.
Hello - I am not sure what ‘regular’ users see - do you see this control:

If so, see if there is a grabge-can icon under there.

-Pascal
this appears only on ‘reply’ comments.
But not on the Topic it self.
I dont see any way to delete a topic post even in my user preferences.
Hello - please send me a message directly with the post/topic you want to remove and if there is no reason not to, I’ll delete it.
-Pascal