How to see control-points/polygons properly when surface modelling?

excuse me, but I have to bump this once again, as I am again currently in a situation where i is very difficult to work with the current possibilities of control point display.

I wish you could add/restore the way they where displayed in Rhino V2, where control Points where simply visible trough shaded surfaces.

It is very straining to look for and select CPs in situations like this:

(I have asked for this 5 years ago already…

so I am a bit desperate by now :grimacing: )

thanks for listening,
Daniel